One Year Without You, Yet Forever With Us
Today marks one year since we lost you, and the feeling of being lost and found defines our lives now. Without you, the world feels quieter, dimmer, and unfamiliar, as though light itself learned absence after you left.
Everyone says death is inevitable, yet knowing this truth never prepared our hearts for your sudden departure.
We accept God’s will with folded hands, but our souls still question why you were called home so early.
I dreamed of growing old together, sharing ordinary mornings and gentle evenings, but destiny chose otherwise.
Time claims it heals everything, yet one year later, my tears still arrive uninvited and unstoppable. Your absence hurts deeply, but your love remains present, guiding us gently through every difficult moment.
In grief, we feel lost and found, missing you endlessly while rediscovering strength through your memories. Not a single day passes without thinking of you, speaking to you silently, or feeling you nearby. You live within our hearts, steady and warm, reminding us that love never truly disappears.
A Life That Taught Strength, Truth, and Grace
Her passion for teaching was purposeful, guiding students beyond textbooks toward confidence, discipline, and self-belief. From a small schoolteacher to department head at a hundred-year-old Chennai college, her journey inspired many. Challenges never intimidated her, because confidence and clarity walked beside her in every responsibility she carried. Though short in stature, she commanded respect effortlessly, standing tall through intellect, discipline, and moral strength.
She dressed in grace, choosing colors thoughtfully, reflecting dignity, confidence, and her beautiful inner balance. Weekends often became classrooms at home, where she mentored students with patience, warmth, and sincere care. She counseled troubled minds gently, balancing firmness and compassion while helping students navigate personal struggles. Through teaching, she found purpose, and through purpose, she left an unforgettable legacy.
Love That Remains, Even After Loss
Regi helped redefine my life, encouraging courage, growth, and belief during every uncertain professional crossroads. As a mother, she shaped Meghna’s values patiently, teaching kindness, discipline, and resilience through everyday moments. She was a silent philanthropist, giving without recognition, believing goodness never required an audience or applause. Many sought her guidance because her wisdom came from lived experience, courage, and thoughtful decision-making. She valued relationships deeply, whether personal or professional, always honoring trust, respect, and sincere communication.
Kind in nature yet firm in discipline, she balanced gentleness with strength effortlessly and authentically. She loved green landscapes, flowing streams, waterfalls, and nature’s quiet conversations that soothed her soul. Even now, her presence surrounds us, guiding our choices and steadying our hearts during fragile moments. In grief, we feel lost and found, broken by absence yet rebuilt by her enduring love. Regi, my beautiful, sweet wife, may you rest in peace, forever lost and found in our hearts.
Regi, my beautiful, sweet, darling wife, may you be at peace, and God bless you.
Regi, Missing You!
Remember her, oh my soul, for she is a blessing
Remember her with gladness and gratitude
Remember her with happiness and thankfulness
Remember her with joy and obligation
Tears and sadness will follow me for year’s
My mind may say forget, but my heart will remember her my lifetime
Each day spent with her is a treasure
Let me try to smile each day seeing her in my thoughts
It will not be easy, but I will walk the rest of the days with her on my side!
Regi we know her from her childhood a gentle, loveable and kind person. A good mother and teacher. Very smart with good will power and command . GOD be with her always and she is in our hearts for ever.🍁
Thank you, Roy and family.
God, she is so beautiful sir. I really wish I could have met her when I had the chance. I am sure she will be watching over from the heaven and guide you and Meghna as your guardian angel. Love ❤️
– Krispin, Abigail & Rachel
Hey Krispin, thanks for taking the time to attend the memorial service today.
Yes, she is a beautiful soul, helpful. Check with her in your prayers and she will recall you as Krispin!
I knew Regi mam when I started my education at Queen Mary’s College. She was a wonderful teacher and also a mother wherever I needed her. She was amazing counselor to guide us in all aspects with the help of God’s grace. We miss you mam but happy that we will meet you in the eternal life.
Thanks, Esther for your kind words.
I agree with each and everything penned down about Regi . Wonderful person indeed
No words to appreciate the master piece write up penned by you John in translating your life your feelings and life with Regi . Praying for you John and Megna always . May the Lords comforting peace and presence be with u snd dear aunty
Anna
Hi Anna, you are one of her close friends and she never misses mentioning you. I miss those updates, now.
Take care, best wishes.
Regi can’t forger this name till I live.Most lovable cousin.Most important person of my life.God be with her and we shall remember her in our prayers
Thanks, Bennet. I still remember those special Sundays we used to spend with Regi.
What a disappointment but she still lives with us. Talk to her in your prayers!
John, you have lost the brightness that lit your path after a brief time, but recollect the beautiful memories of that time,the great person that Regi was, the love you shared, the blessing in Meghna that she has left behind for you to cherish and nurture. May those thoughts bring strength & comfort to you and Meghna. We are sorry that you have lost the love of your life and pray that the loving presence of God, will throw brightness back into your life and lead you on day after day until you reunite with your beloved.
Hi Deena
Words can’t take away the pain of losing a loved one.
I was saddened to hear about Keerthy, and our thoughts are with you and your family.
Peace be with you all.
You will always be in our hearts dearest Regi. The most kindest, courageous, determined and positive person and may the light shine on you forever. Love from Manju & family
Thanks, Manju for your kind words.
Dear Friend,
Just saw/read all of your blogs and saddened with your loss, my heart felt condolences and hope you got all your strength back in the past 2 years….
Stay strong and I amazed with your travel blogs, take care
Kannan/Kannappan(old froend)
Hi Kannappan – It is a surprise that after a long time, we are connected. I am happy to reconnect with you.
It is so unfortunate, and I appreciate your thoughts and empathy.
Soon we will have a call. Meanwhile, stay safe and best regards to your family.